I've been reading a really interesting book lately, which I'm sure just about everyone has heard of already, if not read! It's "Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus". I really enjoy it, and a lot of it makes sense, about the different ways men and women communicate.
However, there are some things really missing. Like, how to handle unresolved issues and old upset that won't seem to go away. How to get to where you are WILLING to communicate with your spouse. What to do when one (or both) of you is having a hard time being honest.
There are some really good websites about marriage that I have found:
What do do when you fall out of love.
Where to do go when you need Marriage Counseling.
Where to get answers to your questions about marriage
Marriage Advice.